Child care theory

The lack of theory in all fields of science in Iran has caused scattered work and has no result other than brain drain and elites' disappointment. Of course, some people are trying to localize it by discarding western theories. But this work is like trying to open the lock of our house with the neighbor's key! Or we have to disable the neighbor's key! Or turn it aimlessly around the lock. But local theories can help: create hope, create work and live happily. Because the main theory of Iran is an empire: that is, Iran was an empire! is and will be Therefore, all our actions make sense in this context: we vote to create: an empire or strengthen it. We plan, build and build: for a grateful empire. Because God wants man to be an emperor! Our child must open his palate with the name of empire. And don't say anything except the empire, and don't hear anything. God has introduced human existential philosophy: his successor. Man is not the head of a family, not even the head of an office, but the head of the whole world! God created the world for man. But like a child who is satisfied with a chocolate bar, we sell all our dignity to a worldly junk. And maybe we also humiliate ourselves: not to believe in such a position, or not to be happy about it. Empire means the highest power. The supreme power is unique, and God expects this from man: to know himself and to know what position God has given him. Naturally, the expected empire of God is not a rebellious and tyrannical empire. Rather, it is the power of thanksgiving: because with thanksgiving, God increases man's power. Our child should get familiar with these concepts and: get used to them and be happy with them. The theory of childcare is also defined in Islam! Before civilization is 50 years old! The West should make a theory for us, in 14 centuries ago, the Prophet and Imam Ali took pains to do it: for example, they said: A child is a commander in the first 7 years: every order he gives must be implemented! If he shouts and asks for food, he should be given food without pay. is obedient That is, before you, it is getting ready to go out! Eating and.. Freudians who see the child in the same state, have an educational mistake. They say: 7 is the third year of the advisor: that is, he covers the empire. Because the supreme adviser of the empire: his elder, the father, is placed. God is the father on earth (Khalifat Allah fi al-Arz) whether for wife or children. Therefore, his children see him as God and their provider. A strong support! But unfortunately, the bad upbringing has made it pale and when a person loses his father, he realizes what a great refuge he has lost. Therefore, real independence or youth (age) should start from 21 years old: not from 15 or 18 years old. Hence there remains a permanent continuity between generations. We will not see a gap between generations. When a father says to a child: Go out of the house! In fact, it leaves his spirit in a vacuum. He should not hear such words before the age of 21. Having lost his self-confidence, he finds himself constantly suspended in the void. And he thinks that no one loves him, so he commits suicide. Because his hope is in his parents. And when the word of separation comes even as a joke, both of them get depressed. Parents feel: they are no longer useful, and they cannot do anything for their child, and the child imagines (even if he is married, has a family) that no one loves him anymore. It is in an unsafe environment. According to the theory of child support in Islam, the full support of parents is for children: up to 21 years of age. It means that choosing a wife should be with the support of parents, not saying: Go buy a house and manage yourself.